It depends …
While I’m a fan of the original 10 commandments, once in a while we should read the other 10 too and remind ourselves:
So my brother and his wife were play fighting the other day. And he lost. To a girl. How and why? (And yes, this matters.)
We got shot – a lot.
Speed, aggression, and surprise. Those 3 sum up just about everything you need to know about being successful with violence (not just physical violence).
Warfare, like self defense, is not just about the fighting. In fact, as Sun Tzu says: