There is no virtue (and no safety) in being weak

There is no virtue in being good if you’re not able to do bad. Good is only good when it’s a choice (i.e. you have the option and ability to do bad, but you choose otherwise). Being a weak ineffectual Read More …

I have one thing to say to this woman

To the lady who wrote this piece about being afraid of men:   While you’re hiding in the bathroom, trying to decide if you need to phone someone to help you out of the bar, please read this – Being Read More …

There is no safety

There is no such thing as safety. It is an illusion. You may be safe at any given time, or you may not. But safety, as a concept, doesn’t exist. A video everyone should watch to remind them there’s no Read More …

This is how you become more safe

The are 2 things everybody wants from the world. Good Guy, Bad Guy, doesn’t matter, everybody wants these 2 things:

Do you worry?

Worrying is like a rocking chair – it keeps you busy but you don’t get anywhere.   We all worry. We all have pain. Sometimes it’s like an annoying background buzz that won’t leave us alone. Sometimes is an all-consuming Read More …

For child safety TheMamaBearEffect gets 2 thumbs up!

Finally! Someone who teaches how to keep children safe – in a way that will actually help! I’m incredibly happy I found themamabeareffect.org. None of this “Don’t talk to stangers” feel-good rubbish that everyone else regurgitates. Themamabeareffect has a no-bullshit-allowed attitude Read More …

What to do if you get in over your head – Border Militia and Neighbourhood Watch edition

What do you do if you get in over your head? There are 2 choices. And both of them involve NOT playing their game.

This is why you’re still unhappy. And how to get happy (+ a free bonus tip on how to actually stick with your diet).

This is how to take control of you own happiness. The principles that you can apply any time, any place.